Early Xmas

Happy 18th Monthversary

Yeee..we are in 18th months.
In this special moment, I gave him a special gift - a board games," I'm the Boss"
I knew that he loved board games, this gift was also a token of my appreciation, apology and Christmas present.
Romance and expressing our love in action were two of essential elements in the relationship.

I wrote a thank you and apology card. It reflected appreciation, forgiveness, caring and affection. It will be stucked forever inside our heart, mind and life. We won't forget little things that touched our heart.

I'm so blessed in having him beside me, he always supports and teaches me about life, patient, hope and of course love.
Thanks God for this special man whom You created.
Our journey is still long to go, but we believe that God will guide us until the day He bless us in our marriage.

We will celebrate our 18th months at Il-Lido, Italian Restaurant :)

What is the purpose of Marriage?

This morning I've read an article - Marriage - Phobia. It's an article about a young lady who is planning to get married and pray that after her return from overseas she can learn about what marriage life is from her parents.
Unfortunately, she was in disbelieved because her parents marriage life was not as smooth as she thought.

She questioned God what is the purpose of getting married? is it happiness? accompanion? has somebody that can make her happy forever and ever?
Finally God told her that marriage is not the purpose of life, it's just another journey for persons who have been chosen to experience the marriage life as a learning journey in life.

The purpose of life should be for God and God's glory only.
This article simply reminded me to reflect back what's the purpose of getting marriage.
Is it because most of my friends already getting married? is it because of status? is it because of my desire to buy the house? or is it because of God's glory?

Can I cope with the challenges that will be coming in our way? 

Can I take greater responsibility as a wife and mother? 

Can I sacrifice myself to submit my whole life to my husband? 

Am I ready to live simple and humble if we don't have money or even downgrade to stay in the small house?

Thanks God for this article so I could reflect back and ask myself about what marriage is all about.

Marriage is not just being together, having sex and building family, or happily ever after as in the fairy tale story.

Like what he said, marriage is sacred. It happens because of God's will for us to be together to continue our journey and purpose to find God's will in every aspect of our life

God, as a couple, we have plan to get married either next year or 2 years later however we trust and surrender everything to You 
You know what's best for us and guide us to know Your will and follow it thoroughly.
Thanks God

The gift of love

I would like to give thanks to God for reminding us about the sacred gift that has been given to us 17 months ago which is the gift of love.
After sometimes, we had tendency to take one another for granted and have high expectation until in the end it hurt one another.

Yesterday night when I reflected back 17 months ago, I have been dreaming to have a nice and kind hearted guy. I never imagined that I would meet him.

Indeed, God has given him to be part of my life more than what I could imagine.
He's always beside me, supporting and teaching me about life and even he always apologises first even though he doesn't do something wrong.

Instead of appreciating him, I took him for granted and expected more from him.

Along the way, we reflected and admitted our mistakes and apologised to each other. We started a new and fresh again with love, appreciation and understanding.

Yeahhh we have dreams to buy house, get married and believe that we are  in the journey toward our dream. We believe that God has beautiful plan more than we could imagine. We hold our hands together  to achieve our dream.

Thank you Lord for Your blessing, love that You have poured to us.
Let us learn to love each other more and more everyday as our desire to love You in every breath that we take.

A Dream of A Girl

It has been a while after discussing and planning about buying new house, I wrote this back.
I felt that there was just simply a plan only...
When I see my friends who were getting married or have been married, I ask myself when is my turn ? 

I know it's still long long time to wait..I can't push him either...
When one of my colleagues told me how his husband last time proposed to her, gave surprise to her during the wedding....I just simply ask myself...will he give me a surprise...will he proposes to me...

Maybe I expect too much from him...he's trying his best to accumulate the wealth...
He may be thinking to get married however he has his own hurdle which is financial issues.

Well, it's just simply my dream as a girl...
I have a reason why I want to get married or buying the house
Next year on May I need to move house, finding a new place to rent is ridiculous.
I will spend S$500-S$1,000 and not sure if the landlord and place suit me.

My plan is actually buying a small house or getting married so we can stay together for about 2 years without children. We will need to get to know each other better and save money before having children.
But he may have different plant.

I am not sure whether he knows what I want.

As a girl, I can't expect much or perhaps to propose him ?? 
I keep everything in my heart and wait till the day comes.

Happy 17th months

Well, our relationship has been 17 months now.
There have been ups and downs and we get used to each other and all become like a routine.
There's no chirping bird or bell ringing. Perhaps we are too busy with our work and forget the romance.

Sometimes, I missed those early days when we just met, a lot of hugs, surprises, and we always remember the day we met.

Now, everything is different, my life becomes so routine and I have no quiet time to reflect and give thanks little things that God gave to me.
There's my inner want to start family however I still have a doubt.

It may not all about financial issues, it's more about my readiness whether I will be able to be a good wife and mother and spend the rest of my life with him.
When we talk a little bit serious about starting family, I'm not sure as well whether he's ready for that.

But if this relationship is going to nowhere, there's no point to continue and everything becomes memory.
Well, I just give this relationship to the Creator. If He decides that it's time to discuss it a bit serious and starts the family, He will open the way.

Bali Adventures and 15th monthversary

Yeahhh we managed to achieve 15th monthversary and celebrated it in Bali.
We enjoyed ourselves, recharged, rejuvenated and did adrenaline activities.
This vacation was indeed really special.

We arrived on Wednesday, 8 Aug at 9.40pm and had Nasi Liwet for supper.
The next day, we went to my grandma's house, bought some souvenirs, had massage and strolled at the Kuta beach.

The third day, we joined Bounty Day Cruise at Lembongan Island.
We went to semi submarine boat whereby we could see the sea creatures closely then we went to the village for seaweed farm and and had a memorable experience looking how they harvested the seaweed.
After buffet lunch, we did canoing, banana boat and snorkling. I really enjoyed snorkling very much. In the afternoon we went back to main island and during the journey back we were throwing up because of the big wave. Overall, we really enjoyed ourselves.

The fourth day, we went to Sea Walker at Sanur beach, it's really amazing, we could touch the fish and saw how beautiful they were.  I almost cried when I could touch them and amazed God's works. After that we went to Bedugul and did Bali Treetop, it's really challenging but fun.

The fifth day, we went back to Singapore and came back to reality.

We really enjoyed this vacation and Thanks God for giving us this opportunity to praise Your works and enjoyed Your handicrafts.

Thanks God and Happy 15th Monthversary.

Davin's B'day

On August 4th, 5th and 6th, we celebrated Davin's 24th B'day at Swensens and Settlers Cafe and Ivah's house.
Both of us celebrated together at Swensens Cafe then we celebrated with our close friends at Settlers Cafe while playing the board games and with KTMers at Ivah's house
It's really fun and lovely and special.
This is the second time he celebrated his birthday with me.

Happy Birthday Say, May God bless you abundantly everyday with love, joy, peace and prosperity.
I love you

New Job, New Life and Love Story

May was our first month joining new company and both of us were in the sales department.
There were some positive sides where we could understand each other better how the sales job looked like, its challenges, tips and strategies and many more.
The downside was whether we could make it or not.  

After two months, apparently it's not like what I expected.
I really thankful to have him on my side, his patience, care, gentleness, wisdom and encouragement really pull me out from any discouragement and negativity.
I have learnt a lot from him how to manage the undesirable situation and still learning now. I am so happy to see his sales is increasing and he's doing great.

There were times we were in the conflict, but thanks God for the courage to tell the truth, we were able overcome the challenges.
I knew that many uexpected things will come in the future, however we just hold a hand together with God in the centre to journey together.

Thanks God for helping me through him.

Happy 1st year Anniversary

10.05.06 - 10.05.07
Well, today is our 1st year anniversary. We celebrate it at Al Dante Italian Restaurant, Esplanade. We are so happy that we could go through this one year with tears, laughter, happy and sad together.
Even though 1 year is still very young, we have known each other well, our uniqueness, difference, similarities, strengths and weaknesses.

Of course there are times, we have misunderstanding because we couldn't communicate well.
There are times, when we are so in love and life is so beautiful
There are times, we are in conflict and just keep silence because we simply don't want to hurt each other
There are times, when we are so close with God and life is just simply peaceful and full of hope
There are times, when we are so far from God and life is just simply miserable
There are times, we hurt each other and Sorry is just a free drug
There are times, we are having fun together and laughing and laughing like there are no other problems in this world

Well, there are a lot of memories we have spent together and  those are beautiful ones.

When we reflected back one year ago how I could say YES to be his girlfriend when he was a jobless, his life was like hopeless. We took a cab from our dinner.
But now, within one year, he has finally found his job, he drove me back home and life was simply full of hope.
How we could imagine that this happens to us....
It's simply God's works. He works together with us in everything, good and bad.
He loves us so much although we often make Him sad, He never gives up in us.

Oh God, Thank you for Your unconditional love to us. We learn from each other how to be a better person that could please you.
Well, our journey is still long to go, but we just trust in You that You will lead us and guide our relationship.

Oh ya, we have a hope for one year that we could celebrate it outside Singapore and have our own house....hehe...
Anyway, once again, Thank You Lord for this amazing gifts. No words could describe how great You are.

Live and Love is A Choice

Thanks God for Your beautiful and unexpected plan for us and the important one is a united heart between us.
Back two weeks ago, when he asked me if I wanna attend Choice Weekend with him, hmmm honestly, I was surprised that suddenly he initiated to attend such thing, because usually I was the one asking him to accompany me hehe....But inside my heart I felt that I don't need to attend since I have attended two years ago and besides I believe that God wants to say something to Him so I want him to be more focus.

During the choice weekend, I prayed at home for him so he could experience God's love who can satisfy his soul.
I attended the closing mass to end the program. One small thing that surprised me was he kissed my forehead during sign of peace. Like a little girl, I felt so happy and surprised. After that during graduation, I hugged attendees one by one and when I hugged him, again he kissed me. I didn't understand but my tears just dropped.
Then, he gave me a letter to say Thank you for what we have gone through together and how blessed he is to have me in his side.

Oh God....I couldn't stop my tears, I was so touched and I hugged and kissed him.
Then, at night before I closed my eyes to end the day, he called me and shared what he got during the Choice. He had two comfort words from God. He was reminded that his priority is about relationship with his beloved ones, his family, me and friends, then come second priority about his work.

Second reminder was not to be worry about his work because God will provide what he needs....
Then, I affirmed that too, because deep inside my heart, I believe that God has asked him and me to be settled down to where we work. He will guide us a long and we could make it together with Him.

Oh God, I couldn't say any words besides this simple word THANK YOU. Until this moment I write this blog, I'm still very joyful and can't stop my tears.
His plan is so beautiful for us and more than I could imagine.
Thanks God for all of these, for giving him to be my side, for a united heart, for Your unconditional love.

We know that live and love is a choice and we have chosen to live and love You by loving each other.

Take A Break !

3 days before starting our new job especially for him, we spent this precious days to go to Jurong Bird Park and East Coast Park.
It was so refreshing when we went there, touched the sky, kissed the nature and amazed of God's handmade creatures.

We learned how awesome the birds with their uniqueness, the fish with their simplicity. It was perfectly wonderful days and we were so in love as we just met at the first time.
Yes, we loved each other more and more every day. Thanks God for the challenges that came through us so we could know each other better and our character can complement each other.

Personally, I'm very thankful for this special gift which is LOVE which not everyone can feel to be loved and love unconditionally.

We are different !

Two days ago we had soft conflict. It started with small things.
I know he didn't mean to remind the past, the mistake that I had done to him but I took it wrongly. I felt that he can't forgive and forget the past and I was very surprised for that. I was shocked and my mind was very confused.

He tried to calm me down, but I still can't believe it until I burst up in tears in front of him. That night I told him what I felt. It's very difficult to explain how I feel. However, he told me what he felt too.
He said he was hurt by what I was saying without considering his feeling.
I was speechless when he burst out everything to me that I never thought before.
The next morning, I was very confused and frustrated what I am gonna do.

I realized that we are different. I am an expressive, straight forward person, and easy to forgive and forget.
On the contrary, he is a soft spoken, gentle heart, sensitive, that's why he's easy to be hurt.
We understand that we can't be together since we are different, but only God's love can unite us.
He created us to complement each other to make each us become better person with special character.

I know that I have good point by being myself, I can forgive and forget the past easily. And for him, he has a gentle heart that has tendency not to hurt others.
The negative point for me is I am not so sensitive therefore I may hurt persons subconsciously and as long as the person never tells me about what he or she feels, I feel that I am right.
On the other hand, his negative point is he may carry the burden with him and it's not easy for him to forgive and forget.

Well, after all, we are different. The good news is we love each other, we know how hurt it is when we try to pinpoint each other mistakes and try to change our partner according to what we want. We are trying to make ourselves better person for God, each other and people surrounding us.
Thanks God for this trial that make us know each other's character.

Double Happiness

Last Monday was my b'day and yesterday was our 11th months anniversary.
Thanks God, I could celebrate my day with my better half.
He's so romantic, on Sunday night, he sent me back to my place and waited until 12MN, then he gave a little card and gift which is shoe bag hehee something that I need. Well, it's the first time I celebrated with my loved one.
I am so happy....

Hence, the next day was our 11th months anniversary. We celebrated together at Toni Romas. Well it was wonderful night for us.
Thanks God for wonderful gifts for me. I am so blessed to have him by my side.

Celebration of Victory, Happy Easter !

Today is the Celebration of Victory after 40 days of lentern journey
Sometimes, we almost fall into temptation. Praise the Lord, we could encourage and support each other to move on.
I believe that he's the One from above. One of priest ever told me that if our life partner can make us a better person and be closer to God and can say NO to something that unpleasing in the eyes of God, he's the gift from the Lord.
I trully give thanks for this special gift.

We have been in this journey together for almost 11 months.
We have gone through many things in our job and life, yeah...this is the portion that God has given to us. Praise God, we can support, encourage and complement each other.
It's called SUITABLE as what God said when He created a man and woman.

When I see how my friend's life after being in the relationship. Her and his life is different. Their priority is not God anymore eventhough one of them still serve in the church but it's more on  responsibility. I know that I can't judge them because I believe that this's the learning process that they may encounter like what we were before.
Well, the positive side is I could see how blessed I and him as long as we always depend on Him 100%.

Thanks God for this journey and 40days of reflection and today's celebration of victory.
Happy Easter, my love !!

10th Months Anniversary

Hee Yaa...
We celebrated our 10th month anniversary by watching "300" movie and dinning at Cafe Cartel with our Cell Group friends.
It was great evening, it made us realize that relationship is not about us alone but involving others as well.
We are still young but our relationship is going deeper and deeper.
1 Month is like 1 year for us.

When we looked back how we were last year, we were so excited about beginning our relationship, whatever we wanted or dreamt of, we did it even sometimes it's not the right way.
However, after sometimes, we understand what is important and not important.
We were mature enough to see the relationship is not about love, desire, lust alone, it's about commitment, support and encouragement, acceptance, honesty.

Eventhough our journey is still long to go, we have faith in God that He will lead us to His beautiful plan to us.
We just walk by faith with Him day by day. Problems will come for sure, but when we unite with God, we can conquer that and God's glory will be revealed upon us.

Thanks God for this journey and lesson that we have gone through.
Let You lead us always in every path of our life and let our love is reflecting Your unconditional love.

Valentine's Day

It's our first Valentine's celebration.
He planned everything for us. He reserved a table for two at Top of M Fine Dinning Restaurant, Meritus Mandarin on February 16th.

We ordered 3 course set dinner (French Cuisine)
Entree : (D)Frech Onion Soup, (I) Salmon salad
Main course : (D) Duck, (I) Cod fish
Dessert : Shorbet

We were entertained by acoustic group who sang for us.
He requested the song " Tonight I Celebrate my love for you "
It's wonderful night which spice up our love story

Segitiga Cinta

Ada banyak alasan orang untuk menikah. Ada yang bilang bahwa pasangannya enak diajak bicara. Ada yang bilang pasangannya sangat perhatian. Ada yang bilang merasa aman dekat dengan pasangannya. Ada yang bilang pasangannya macho atau sexy. Ada yang bilang pasangannya pandai melucu. Ada yang bilang pasangannya pandai memasak. Ada yang bilang pasangannya pandai menyenangkan orang tua. Pendek kata kebanyakan orang bilang dia COCOK dengan pasangannya.

Ada banyak alasan pula untuk bercerai. Ada yang bilang pasangannya judes, bila diajak bicara cenderung emosional. Ada yang bilang pasangannya sangat memperhatikan pekerjaannya saja, lupa kepada orang-orang di rumah yang setia menunggu. Ada yang bilang pasangannya sangat pendiam, tidak dapat bertindak cepat dalam situasi darurat, sehingga merasa kurang terlindungi.
Ada yang bilang pasangannya kurang menggairahkan.
Ada yang bilang pasangannya gak nyambung kalau bicara. Ada yang bilang masakan pasangannya terlalu asing atau terlalu manis. Ada yang bilang pasangannya tidak dapat mengambil hati mertuanya. Pendek kata kebanyakan orang bilang bahwa dia TIDAK COCOK LAGI dengan pasangannya.

Kebanyakan orang sebetulnya menikah dalam ketidakcocokan. Bukan dalam kecocokan. Dr. Paul Gunadi menyebut kecocokan-kecocokan diatas sebagai sebuah ilusi pernikahan. Dua orang yang pada waktu pacaran merasa cocok tidak akan serta merta berubah menjadi tidak cocok setelah mereka menikah.

Ada hal-hal yang hilang setelah mereka menikah, yang sebelumnya mereka pertahankan benar-benar selama pacaran. Sebagai contoh, pada waktu pacaran dua sejoli akan saling memperhatikan, saling mendahulukan satu dengan yang lain, saling menghargai, saling mencintai. Lalu apa yang dapat menjadi pengikat yang mampu terus mempertahankan sebuah pernikahan, bila kecocokan-kecocokan itu tidak ada lagi? Jawabannya adalah KOMITMEN.

Seorang kawan saya di Surabaya membuat sebuah penelitian, perilaku selingkuh kaum adam pada waktu mereka dinas luar kota dan jauh dari anak /isterinya.
Apa yang membuat pria-pria tersebut selingkuh tidak perlu dijabarkan lagi.
Tetapi apa yang membuat pria-pria tersebut bertahan untuk tidak selingkuh?
Jawaban dari penelitian tersebut sama dengan diatas yaitu : KOMITMEN.

Hanya komitmen yang kuat mampu menahan gelombang godaan dunia modern pada waktu seorang pria berada jauh dari keluarganya.
Begitu pula sebaliknya, pada kasus wanita yang berselingkuh.

Komitmen adalah sebagian dari cinta dalam definisi seorang psikolog kenamaan bernama Sternberg. Dia menyebutnya sebagai "triangular love" atau segitiga cinta dimana ketiga sudutnya berisi : Intimacy (keintiman), Passion (gairah) dan Commitment (komitmen). Sebuah cinta yang lengkap dalam sebuah rumah tangga selayaknya memiliki ketiga hal diatas.
Intimacy atau keintiman adalah perasaan dekat, enak, nyaman, ada ikatan satu dengan yang lainnya.

Passion atau gairah adalah perasaan romantis, ketertarikan secara fisik dan seksual dan berbagai macam perasaan hangat antar pasangan.

Commitment atau komitmen adalah sebuat keputusan final bahwa seseorang akan mencintai pasangannya dan akan terus memelihara cinta tersebut "until death do us apart".

Itulah segitiga cinta karya Sternberg yang cukup masuk akal untuk dipelihara dalam kehidupan rumah tangga. Bila sebuah relasi kehilangan salah satu atau lebih dari 3 unsur diatas, maka relasi itu tidak dapat dikatakan sebagai cinta yang lengkap dalam konteks hubungan suami dan isteri, melainkan akan menjadi bentuk-bentuk cinta yang berbeda.

Sebagai contoh :

Bila sebuah relasi hanya berisi intimacy dan commitment saja, maka relasi seperti ini biasa disebut sebagai persahabatan.

Bila sebuah relasi hanya bersisi passion dan intimacy saja tanpa commitment, maka ia biasa disebut sebagai kumpul kebo.

Bila sebuah relasi hanya mengandung passion saja tanpa intimacy dan commitment, maka ia biasa disebut sebagai infatuation (tergila - gila)

Cinta atau Cocok

Artikel bagus buat Valentine's Day

Cinta atau Cocok Adalah dua orang lansia yang tinggal di salah satu
Panti Jompo. Mereka saling mengenal sudah cukup lama. Pada suatu malam
komunitasnya merayakan pesta dan mereka di satu meja makan bersama. Selama
ramah tamah itu, si opa beberapa kali main mata dengan si oma.

Akhirnya dia merasa cukup berani untuk bertanya kepadanya, *"Maukah kamu menikah dengan aku?" *Setelah "memikirkannya" dalam beberapa detik, si oma itu menjawab, *"Ya, ya, saya mau!" *Mereka masih sempat ngobrol sebentar, kemudian setelah pesta
itu mereka kembali ke tempat masing-masing.

Hari kemudian, si opa bingung.
Apakah si oma itu menjawab "ya" atau "tidak?" Dia berusaha tapi sama sekali
dia tak bisa ingat. Sambil gemeteran, dia mencoba untuk menelponnya. Pertama
dia menjelaskan bahwa ingatannya memang makin kacau. Kemudian dia mencoba
membicarakan lagi pesta yang tadi malam. Dan karena makin percaya diri,
akhirnya dia bertanya, "*Hmm, saat aku mengajak kamu untuk menikah, apakah
kamu menjawab ya atau tidak?" *Begitu gembira dia pada saat si oma itu
menjawab *"Tentu saja aku menjawab ya, ya, saya mau, dan itu sungguh dengan
sepenuh hatiku!"* Kemudian ia melanjutkan, *"Dan untung kamu menelpon,
karena saya sama sekali tidak bisa ingat siapa yang meminta saya!"*

Pada umumnya, dua orang mau menikah karena cinta, alias cinta romantik.
Perasaan "saling suka" yang juga dianggap "saling cinta" itulah yang biasa
meyakinkan pasangan untuk bersama memasuki bahtera pernikahan. Tapi ada
masalah sedikit disini, yakni walaupun cinta tersebut merupakan suatu daya
tarik yang sangat kuat bagi dua pribadi, namun ia tidak cukup kuat untuk
merekatkan keduanya. Buktinya adalah begitu banyak hubungan suami-istri yang
retak dan gagal! Saya sangat setuju dengan seorang penulis yang mengatakan
bahwa yang diperlukan untuk merekatkan seorang itu dengan pasangannya
bukanlah cinta (romantik) melainkan kecocokan.

Pada waktu Tuhan menciptakan Hawa untuk menjadi istri Adam, Ia menetapkan
satu kriteria yang khusus dan ini hanya ada pada penciptaan istri manusia,
yaitu, *"Aku akan menjadikan penolong baginya, yang sepadan dengan dia." *Kata
"sepadan" dapat kita ganti dengan kata "cocok." Tuhan tidak hanya
menciptakan seorang wanita buat Adam yang dapat dicintainya, Ia sengaja
menciptakan seorang wanita yang cocok untuk Adam. Berarti Tuhan menyatakan
bahwa supaya seorang pria dan seorang wanita dapat hidup bersama, mereka
harus cocok. Menarik sekali bahwa Tuhan tidak menganggap cinta (romantik)
sebagai prasyarat pernikahan. Tuhan sudah memberi kita petunjuk bahwa yang
terpenting bagi suami dan istri adalah kecocokan.

Mungkinkah ungkapan yang sangat indah itu, "Cinta adalah segalanya," keliru?
Kedatangan Tuhan Yesus menyempurnakan Cinta. Begitu besar Kasih Allah akan
dunia ini sehingga Ia telah mengaruniakan Anak-Nya yang tunggal.... Cinta
sejati rela berkorban! Dengan cinta yang seperti ini memang, "Cinta adalah
segalanya!" Jadi para suami dan istri, kecocokan yang merekatkan kamu dengan
pasangan hendaklah disempurnakan lagi dengan cinta sejati yang dari Tuhan.
Dengan kata lain, Cintailah yang cocok dengan kamu! (P.Noel,SDB)

9th Months Anniversay

Yeah...today is our 9th months anniversary.
Everything is the same, works that make it different.
Well, now we have  challenges in our work. On my side, I am looking for new opportunities since my company is no longer exist.
On his side, he is struggling how to kill 8 hours a day in his office since he has nothing to do there.

I believe it's a part of life. There's time that we are so busy in our life and there's time we are so relaxed. For me, I just bear with that. I just walk day by day to life in the fullest.
As for our relationship, so far so good. Everyday we are in love and always communicating everything. Because we believe that communication is important otherwise it may cause many problems.

Oh ya, since February is Love Season. Three days ago, we spent time together at Sentosa to refresh our life and spirit.
It was simply awesome. We enjoyed our selves, gazing at the sea as since we were staring at our future..

Well, to be honest, the closer we are, the more temptation to be close with each other and sometimes we could not avoid that...It's part of learning as well.
The important thing is our focus is still God in any conditions.

Thank you God for this wonderful relationship.