T . I . E

Thanksgiving, Initiating and Expressing

They are the keys of creating romance sparkling in relationship. As mentioned before that I feel the romance is slightly dimmed. Praise God, He knew our needs and supplied it.
Sometimes, it's ashame for us. He is so good to us but we often do unpleasant things to Him.

Well, Thanksgiving is the first key. Giving thanks to God that our partner is a special gift from Him. He has a beautiful plan for us since we were in the womb.
How's amazing His work for us before we met. They shaped us differently in His special ways but we had a real connection between each other.
When we met, we could understand each other, accept each other's weaknesses and strengths, support each other in good and bad times and prayed for each others needs.

The second key is Initiating. Instead of complaining to the condition, starting with initiative to light up the romance fire in this relationship. Please don't wait who's doing first and use our ego as an excuse. That's not gonna be working. In relationship woman and man have the same opportunity to initiate. In the old age, our wiseman said that woman should wait for the man to initiate everything. Yes, it's partly true for certain cases. However, if this is for the benefit of the relationship itself. Gender is not an excuse.

The last one is Expressing. After we have a willingness to start, don't stop until there and wait and wait. Express your feeling, praise our partner, hug and touch our partner with love.
That will be a magic way. Love is an action. It's not just a fantasy or imagination. It needs an action so other can feel it and the love can be transfered.

Those keys I have found out from my experience. Now, the romance is sparkling again and I love him more and more and so do him. I feel like it's the first time we met and the love just abundantly surround us.
Thanks God...