Two Hands One Heart

Today, I have been reminded by one of the book authors and also my mentor, Greg Baer.
He introduced me 2 years ago about Real Love. When I was single, I was full and contented with real love therefore I lived in fullness, I received and felt God's love always with me day by day, I never felt so lonely. Years have passed and now God has given me new lesson in relationship.

Yes, I am in relationship now. Like other children, when they have been given new things, they feel excited and want to do everything they want and sometimes they ignore the guidelines and the rules, this is the same case with us.
When we are first in relationship, everything is so exciting. A partner whom we are longing for has come in our life. We do many things to please our partner and sometimes we ignore the rules. However, after we are looking back from the first we were dating until now, there have been good improvement. Though I can tell honestly it's still far from perfect.

We learn now how to control ourself, our ego, our passion, our expectation. Sometimes, we failed but after we realized it, we stood up and move on.
I can tell that I and my partner are two different person. Our character sometimes opposite each other. The good thing is we can compliment each other.
And after all, the bottom line is we believe in one God, we love and put our God first above each other. We realize that we are human with all limitations and we can't satisfy each other's needs totally eventhough we have done our best. Only God can satisfy our souls and our needs.

Besides, honesty is another good instrument for unconditional love.
Sometimes being honest can hurt others but it's much more better than never being honest.
Loving and forgiving can come from being honest.
So far, we are in good stage, yes there are times we are conflicting but after all we realize that we are only human with many weaknesses and limitations and we can't expect our partner to be what we want.

Today, Greg Baer reminds me about REAL LOVE, how we love our partner without any expectation and care about his happiness instead of us.
Thank you Lord, You are the creator of our relationship. Thank you for reminding us about Real Love.....Thank you for all the lessons we have been through....Thank you for Your forgiving and Mercy when we failed to behave like Your children....